The big poofy over the top wedding dress that has been sprinkled with glitter and sequins and beads has been bought! Not really. It's only partially poofy, not over the top and there is not a bit of glitter or sparkle anywhere on it. The thing is paid for, however, and the ladies at the workshop in New York City are hard at work on it as we speak.

More annoying things in the middle of the night

I get home from work around 2 am the other night. Hit the button for the garage door. Door raises...stops after 2 feet. I repeat several times. Finally go in and peer at the darn door. Something is wrong...it just doesn't look right. Turns out a torsion spring has broken. Apparently a self repair is far too dangerous for any mere mortal so I'm hunting for a good door repairman.

Strange

I got home from work around 2 am. Not so strange and I didn't notice anything odd, but at that time, all I'm interested in is sleep. This morning, I went out to get the newspaper and noticed that my hanging planter and a little ceramic planter were missing off the front porch. So weird. I checked the backyard and everything is intact there. There are much more valuable things that the little sneak could have taken....why a heavy hanging planter and a pot of rose moss?

Not bridal

Apparently, I'm not bride material in the land of commerce. I went through 5 floors of a huge mall, every floor of every anchor store, a fancy formal dress shop and a really expensive fancy formal dress shop. Got ignored in every single one of them even though it was glaringly obvious I was looking at bridal type stuff. Even said hello to one salesgirl, who promptly turned her back and sashayed off. Harrumph. If the brick and mortar stores ever wonder why they are losing business to the internet, here is a prime example.

More wedding nonsense

This wedding planning is continuing in fits and starts. I now have my bartender reserved and have a photographer. She does gorgeous work. See it here and drool at the prettiness of it all. She's an Oklahoma girl transplanted to Arkansas and sounds like a fun person over the phone. I've also picked out the local hotel. I'll get the block rate set up and update on the wedding site soon.

In non-wedding related nonsense. we have had picture perfect weather recently. I turned the AC off and opened all the windows 5 days ago and haven't looked back since. I'm hoping it continues this way and does just a gentle glide into the rest of fall.

Busy little bee

While the roofers are racing rain back home, I've been quite productive back on the plains. In one day, I inspected the wedding site, met with the decorator, interviewed a photographer, inspected the sound system, dropped by the Chamber of Commerce for information for my guests, bought supplies for silk flower arrangements, and met with my caterer. Whoooo am I tired.

I'm thrilled to my toenails that my wonderful friend J has crawled out of the woodwork to let me know that he is planning on being at the nuptial celebrations. I haven't seen him since my early days in Detroit and I really miss chatting with him on a regular basis. Without him and a few other key people, I might not have made it through med school mentally intact. Of course, there are those who would say I was never mentally intact....but I say nyah, nyah, nyah to them.

Listmaking, deluxe edition

This wedding planning stuff is a headache. The actual event is 10 months out, so there should be plenty of time, but I would like everything to be settled NOW. I have at least 3 three page lists of things that need to be done. Writing things down usually gets them out of my head and I don't worry so much, but just looking at the ginormous number of things to be done just makes me anxious.

I have a few things nailed down...date, venue, cute boy, an invite list. Those are the basics. It's the details that are killing me. C keeps reminding me that this is a marathon, not a sprint. I appreciate the concept, but it doesn't help much. I've always been a little ADD when it comes to getting things done. Probably the same reason why I went into ER instead of surgery or OB. Gah. All advice would be helpful.

Wedding bells are ringing.

My geekiness is expanding by leaps and bounds. The official wedding website can be found here.

On other fronts, this wedding planning is taxing. I have so many lists running in my head that I can't get them down on paper fast enough. If you know me, you know I am an inveterate list maker, keeping a book of lists with me at all times. If you have any helpful tips, please let me know before my head explodes!

Big news!

If you haven't heard the news, go here or here. You can also contact me or C and we will give you the lowdown.

Pleasing summer view

It has finally cooled off (!) to 89 F from a high of 99 F today. I was doing a few chores in the yard and checked on my herb garden. I planted lavender on a whim last year. I wasn't sure if it would make it through the winter. It did sprout back up and is blooming right now. I've always hated the smell of lavender, but after smelling this, I realized I had never smelled real lavender. What I hated was the smell of synthetic, overly sweet and powdery lavender fragrance in body lotion and bath soap. Fresh lavender is amazing! The honeybees seemed to agree as well. There were at least 8 fat bumblebees dancing around my two little lavender plants, eating up that tasty nectar. If they are part of a formal hive someplace, some honey farmer will be pleased with the lavender honey these little workers are soon to be producing.

Atack of the Zoe

Zoe decided to freak out this morning. I was still snoozing when she came meandering over the pillow looking for some pets. Something about the benign white sheet startled her. She went leaping into the air and came down scrambling to get away right onto my face. Ignore my post-shift bloodshot eyes and gaze upon the lacerated carnage that is my forehead.

Relaxation at last!

I had a lovely spa day yesterday. I spent the morning shopping for dresses at Nordstrom's and had a quick lunch at Johnny Rocket's. Then, I hit the spa at the bottom of Old Towne. I nearly fell asleep during the facial, had a most invigorating and knot-blasting massage and had a two hour mani-pedi. That last bit was most indulgent. C was waiting for me when I got done. We cooked a lovely dinner and then indulged in the most decadent ice cream EVAH!. Green and Black Chocolate Ice Cream. I have to thank Leslie for introducing me to the heaven that is Green and Black's Chocolate. It's super dark and not overly sugary. Very highly quality stuff for the serious chocolate addict. They make a cherry and dark chocolate bar, but unfortunately, do not sell it in the US. If anyone finds it here, buy me a boatload and I will reimburse you upon delivery!

Surprise Birthday!

On May 12th, C and I flew to Dallas for a quick overnight trip. Mission: Surprise Grandma for her birthday. Sneaky Grandma had been calling all her friends and inviting them out to dinner. Everyone thought she knew about the party and kept turning her down. I think her feelings were starting to get a little hurt until she showed up at the restaurant and saw everyone who loved her there. Lots of love, Grandma!!


I think she was just little bit surprised. Overwhelmed, is more like it!


My mama and my grandma. Hugs! Love!


My grandma with her three daughters and all her grandkids, except Leslie. (Missed you Leslie!)

Her very cool, yummy chocolate cake that Aunt Terry put together.

Grandma with the fattest small dog in the world, Mitzi. (Yes, she does get her own breakfast sandwich at McDonald's)


To really explain what they are doing here would take up way too much space and would get lost in translation. Email me if you really want to know. Or...just laugh....it's what I do.


The three sisters with their Uncle James, recreating an old photo for old times' sake.

Blech!

I just finished my latest round of night shifts. The past two nights have been quite hellish. I felt like I was back in Detroit on Saturday night...lots of major car accidents and butt kickings. To get myself back on a regular schedule, I try to sleep as little as possible during the day I end my last night shift. I'm not useful for anything, but it does get me back into the regular swing of things. On Thursday, I'm going here for a much needed afternoon of relaxation. C. gave me a gift certificate at Christmas and I'm planning on living it up like a lady who lunches...a morning of shopping, lunch with C, and then an afternoon of pampering.

Garden stuff

In case anybody is interested at all, I found this this link discussing mulch with the whys and wherefores explained rather clearly. There are several calculators out there on the intarwebs to determine how much mulch you should buy. This one is useful, I think, in that it also will calculate the cost for you.

More Falconry

This beauty is a European Eagle Owl. She's a close cousin of the American Great Horned Owl. Her only difference is that her eyes are orange instead of yellow. For as big as she is, she only weighs about 5 pounds.

Pretty flowers

This one is called Cherub's Smile. I planted it two years ago and it has finally bloomed.


This is a peony planted two years ago as well. It has finally bloomed, but peonies are notorious for taking several years to bloom after being planted. It is supposed to be a dark, ruffly red called "Karl Rosenfeld". It doesn't look like the pictures after all.


This is a falcon I had the pleasure of handling in April at the Homestead. The nice couple that took the class with me had a camera and are sending me pictures now that we have the email kinks worked out. Isn't she gorgeous?

Iris eyes are smilin'

Cheesy, I know. Last fall, I went on a bearded iris buying kick. I ran out of places to put them. I ended up placing four into the veggie bed just to have a place to put them. Two started blooming yesterday. They sure are purty...



Olympic Challenge



Earl of Essex.


And shhhhh, a big secret is happening this weekend. I can't delve into too many details, but, needless to say, someone I know is going to be very surprised this weekend.

It's spring...really, I thnk.

The weather has been consistently warm the past two weeks. I've put down my pre-emergent and sprayed the overgrowth of weeds on the lawn. The flowering plum has flowered. My weeping willow has put out tiny green leaves. My forsythia is in bloom and my Yoshino cherries are blooming.
From the patio, they still look tiny, but I can already envision how they will block the view of the neighbor's yard.
A close up of the delicate, pale pink blossoms.
Zoe T. Cat didn't like that I was outside having fun in the yard without her. She complained a lot in her sweet, whiny, tiny little cat voice.