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Tuesday, November 22, 2011

Harper's 4 month birthday

Our baby girl is 4 months old! Time is going by so swiftly, yet we can hardly remember as a tiny little newborn. She weighed in at 15 lb, 16 1/2 oz and was 26 inches long. That's 2 inches longer than she was at her 2 month visit! It makes my bones ache just to think about growing that fast. She's become very vocal with lots of screeching and cooing. She still sleeps about 12 hours a night, which has caused my milk to quit on us. She doesn't seem to mind and actually prefers the bottle since she can eat much faster that way. She still likes to eat about every 2 hours, but don't be late with the food. She gets very loud and opinionated when she has to wait to eat. She is very alert and interested in everything going on. She definitely keeps a sharp eye on Spenser. She can easily roll to her side.

She immediately took to the Exersaucer, batting the toys and chewing and drooling on anything she could get near her mouth.

Spenser has a new way of "smiling" for the camera. I'm not sure where he got the idea that this was the way to do it.

On Halloween, Daddy sits with Little Red Riding Hood and the (not so) Big Bad Wolf. Harper visited just a couple of neighboring houses before going home. Spenser and I went almost all the way around the block. Unfortunately, he wanted to be carried most of the time, which limited how far I could go. He was very interested in the other kids and wanted to talk about the houses that didn't have their lights on. His commentary ran along the line of, "Houses dark, in bed, night night" and "Look at the kids!" He was pretty bashful about approaching doors and saying trick or treat, but he still got plenty of candy for an almost two year old.


Yay! Grandma Gail made us more bibs! I picked out the fabrics and she sewed them up from a pattern we created when Spenser was little. These are double sided and have an internal flannel lining to soak up the slobbers. So cute and much more fashionable than the ones you can find at the store.

Friday, October 28, 2011

Guess who came to visit

I bet you can guess who came to visit us just by looking at the collection of kids on our stairwell.

Thursday, October 27, 2011

Spenser on our morning walk


Harper photo op

Harper bundled against the chilly weather on our morning walk.


Touring the town

Long time friends are visiting for a day.  Spenser is having a blast playing with their kids.  We are touring the historic part of town.  Tonight we are having a homemade southern feast of fried chicken, collard greens, and macaroni and cheese.

Wednesday, October 26, 2011

3 months old



Harper turned 3 months old this month. We've been so busy, there has not been time to stop and talk about it. She weighed 15 lb 3 oz this morning. She is very chatty and will talk a lot when she is in the mood. She is such a good baby and only fusses when she is hungry, lonely, or really really ready to go to bed. She is sleeping 12 hours a night (we only wish Spenser was sleeping as good). She is very strong and alert. She's always looking around to see what is happening.

I've been busy getting her Halloween costume in order. One more sewing project and it will all be done!

Tuesday, October 11, 2011

Spenser's Milestone

Spenser being oh-so-serious on a vintage fire engine. The local fire and rescue groups are primarily volunteer based. This weekend, they had a fundraiser and open house. They had firetrucks and ambulances open for exploration, free food, balloons, hats, and various other fun and games that were a wee bit advanced for our tow. It was a nice Sunday afternoon activity and let us take a really long walk downtown since we stopped by the wrong firehouse.

A couple of weeks ago, Spenser's teacher, Ms. Pam, let us know that Spenser had asked to use the potty. It was not a successful sitting in that when she stepped away to grab a new diaper, he stood up and managed to get his pants wet. Nevertheless, we took this for a positive sign that he will someday soon show real interest in learning to use the potty. We took the boy to Target and let him pick from a plethora of potties. (I love alliteration) He picked a simple and inexpensive one (no musical flushing mechanism or built in magazine racks). He was so excited about it that he insisted on sitting on it in the shopping basket while we finished our shopping, checked out and made our way back to the car. He has sat on it a few more times, but only when we ask him to right before his bath time. I keep reminding myself, "Babysteps, babysteps."

His vocabulary continues to expand and he is consistently using 3 word sentences. We run through a set of alphabet flashcards each night before bed and he is starting to consistently recognize a few of the letters. He will ask for "cards" if we forget or try to skip over them.

He hasn't been sleeping through the night since shortly before Harper was born. At first, we thought it was just some regression secondary to a new baby showing up, but he is still waking up 2 or more times in the night. He wakes up crying and will sometimes fall asleep with a few minutes of cuddles and back patting. Other times, it's 2 hours of rocking and walking circles with him. More than likely it's still some separation anxiety that is lingering. As C says, this too will pass.

He is pretty protective of Harper. I took Harper to visit C at work and show her off to the office, so the next week, I did the same with Spenser. Spenser was very upset that we were leaving Harper behind at the school.


Just a cute picture of our pretty girl sleeping.

Thursday, October 06, 2011

End of September photo dump

Our big girl sitting up in the Bumpo seat. Her head control is excellent! In developmental news, she smiles regularly. She bats at her toy bar on the car seat. She can roll from her tummy to her back. She's starting to drool and blow lots of bubbles, indicating she's starting to gear up for more solid food than the mommy milk.

She looks quite comfy propped up on the couch.

Spenser, our budding mixologist.

I was making dinner when I realized it was awfully quiet in the living room. He had emptied out this toy basket and was sitting in it, contentedly "reading" a little book.

Enjoying some chicken nuggets for dinner. He's decided he's too old to be bothered with bibs. He's in the midst of cutting four canine teeth. No two year molars yet but they are coming soon.

She's going to grow up tough, since big brother has already decided she makes a dandy footrest.

A morning stretch and smile on the changing table.

Zoe has decided that Harper makes just as good a napping partner as Spenser did.

In her lovely party dress that Grandma Gail bought for her. She wore it when we went to a party in Fawn Lake. At that same party, Spenser fell off a concrete patio onto a lower level (two steps) while standing on a chair and later fell down a short flight of steps in the house.

Grandma Marilyn came to visit!

Friday, September 16, 2011

2 Month Birthday


Harper turned 2 months old last Sunday. She had her first full day at school on Monday and did great, according to her teachers. Slept, ate, got cuddles, and did tummy time with no fussing. She had her 2 month doctor appointment on Saturday and weighed in at respectable 13 lb 8 oz and is 24 inches long. For perspective, Spenser currently weighs 28 lbs. Other than a mosquito bite on her forehead, her doctor says she looks perfect. She is rolling over and has developed her social smile.

If it is before 6:30 AM when everyone is waking up, I'll bring both kids into bed with me for some extra snoozing. This particular morning, I was wide awake after they had both went back to sleep. I snuck out from in between them to take an uninterrupted shower. When I came back, this is what I found. Harper is going to grow up being one tough little girl.


A good shot of her gorgeous baby blues. Still too soon to see if they will stay.


Another good shot of her eyes.

Trying to catch her smiling here. She gives no warning and the smile is usually gone before I can grab a camera. I was lucky to catch this sideways look at it.
We recently discovered that she is happy with a pacifier in the evening instead of a 3 hour nursing fest. She's all swaddled in her Moses basket, ready to go to sleep. She's wrapped in a blanket crocheted by one of the paramedics in the ER. Lately, she has been sleeping 12 hours at night, with one little wake up at 4 am for a snack.

Chewing on her arm as a light snack.

We have a picture of Spenser playing incognito baby, in which his outfit blends into the pattern on the bouncy seat. As I going through the photos I took this morning, I realized that Harper was trying to pull a similar trick.


Just a nice picture of my handsome boy while he is not running around like a hurricane.

From this morning...Spenser loves to play in the trickle of water we leave running from the faucet for him. He fills up the cup, dumps it out, refills it, drinks the water, spits the water out. It's endless fun for him, though the kitchen floor is always half swamped by the time he is done. Guess it forces me to mop and keep a clean floor.

Saturday, September 10, 2011

Milestones

On Wednesday, Harper was doing tummy time and rolled from front to back on her own...only about 2 months early!

That same day, I made an attempt at grocery shopping with both babies at once. Spenser was in a particularly cooperative mood and stayed in the cart. I was wearing Harper in our mei tai carrier. A sweet lady who looked to be about 90 years old was cruising by in her electric scooter when she stopped us. She was quite taken with the babies and mostly enamored by Spenser. After asking permission, she gave him a lollypop for being so cute. He wasn't quite sure what to make of the attention, but happily took the candy.

Wednesday, September 07, 2011

Natural and manmade disasters

We've been busy at the hacienda with a little earthquake, a burst storm and a hurricane named Irene. The earthquake measured out to 5.8 and it's epicenter was about 30 miles to the south of us. Spenser was at school, C was in DC and I was home with Harper when the house started rumbling and shaking. At first, I thought it was a military aircraft going overhead. We are in a flight path and this happens not infrequently. When I realized that this was not just overhead noise, but the house was actually making the noise, I grabbed up Harper and ran outside. I ran further when I realized the deck I was standing under was swaying. A few seconds later, it was all over. Other than being shaky from adrenaline overload and a few pictures that fell over, everything was fine. A few days later, I left the house to pick up Spenser. I had Harper in the back and was texting back and forth with C about the evening. It was threatening to rain at the time and I had a few errands to do before I got Spenser. It had started raining and blowing when C told me to wait in town for a while because the storm was so bad at the house. About the time that I arrived at the school, the storm hit town. I ended up sitting in the hospital parking garage because it is sheltered there. We had 60 mph wind gusts and pouring rain. It knocked out the electricity and the hospital had to kick over to using the generators. It also knocked out cell service, though I could still text C. Harper and I nursed in the dark for about 20 minutes before the storm blew over and I could pick up Spenser. We had plans for that weekend to run down to Virginia Beach as a quick end of summer vacation/birthday getaway. Unfortunately, Irene put a big dent in that plan. To make up for it, we were able to visit Virginia Beach on Labor Day weekend for a nice little family vacation.

We stayed at a Marriott Courtyard on the south end of the boardwalk. We sprung for a suite so Spenser could have some running room and we ended up with two balconies. This is what we woke up to....a beautiful sunrise and a manicured beach.


Spenser was really excited about the water and the sand. He had never been to a beach before. After changing out of our jammies, we had a fabulous breakfast at Doc Taylor's , a local, hole in the wall that was just a couple of blocks away.


Sleeping Beauty in the king size bed.


We rented a cabana and lounge chairs to keep Harper out of the sun. It also gave us a nice protected place to nurse as well as keep our belongings tucked away.

Harper did the best thing one can do on a beach....snooze.

Spenser loved digging in the sand. I loved looking out at the water and seeing dolphins play just beyond the waves. They were so close in that people were swimming near them.



The sand was weirdly sticky and hard to get off the skin. We did venture down to the waves. It was pretty rough and I'm not sure how much of that was left over from Irene. Spenser and I would go in about ankle deep and get splashed by the waves. Any deeper than about mid thigh was too rough and dangerous for me to take a squirming toddler. As an example, there was enough surf that people were out surfing.


Spenser had a lot fun making us chase him around the cabana. The people behind us thought this was hilarious.
After lunch, we ventured down to the Virginia Aquarium and Marine Science Center. There are two buildings of exhibits, a nature walk, IMAX theater and a boat ride. We opted to see just the first building. This place is very well done. Lots of scientific information in a kid friendly and interesting format. I got to pet a ray, a horseshoe crab and a starfish. Spenser wasn't ready to be that brave yet....

though he and C were brave enough to be swallowed up by this shark! hehe

He was pretty fascinated by this harbor seal swimming by in the tank in front of the building. The aquarium does a lot of rescue and rehab of injured wild seals and has been able to release quite a few back into the wild.

The next morning, we hit the Pocahontas Pancake Shop. If you are ever near Virginia Beach, go. Just go. It is a local institution. It is wonderful. Spenser and C loved their pancakes. I had a perfectly done stuffed french toast. Go early because it gets crowded and a line forms. The decor is not to be missed. We spent the rest of the day at the beach and exploring Virginia Beach. We had dinner at a great Cuban restaurant called Mojito Cafe. It is tiny inside, but the food and service is wonderful. Spenser ate more of my dish than he did of his. He was grabbing handfuls of rice off my plate and signing for more of my pork. After some ice cream and a walk on the boardwalk, it was time for bed and home in the morning.


Last family self portrait on the balcony before we leave.


Spenser has been fascinated by our bicycles recently. He's not quite ready to pedal his tricycle, so we thought we would try a balance bike. It showed up on the day we left for Virginia Beach, so we put the bike together upon our return. He is soooo excited about it. His legs are not quite long enough to reach the ground when he is sitting on it, but he can stand and walk with it. It even has a hand break and kickstand just like the big kids' bikes do.


This morning, he was trying to put his shoes one. A valiant first effort, but they look a bit painful to walk in. I put his socks on him and helped him straighten them out.


Now, for my man made disaster. We have been talking forever about replacing the ugly, dated sliding glass doors on the bottom patio. We finally ordered the door shortly before Harper was born. Because the size of the door is odd, it had to be custom built. They showed up today to install it so this is what my basement exercise room looks like. The giant blue tarp is up because it is POURING rain and it is expected to continue raining for the rest of the day.

It took them about 4 hours and they just left. Here is my beautiful new door. It matches the sliding glass door I have on the deck directly above it. We just need to paint the trim and remove the hardware from the vertical blinds.